Comments from Supporters in 2005- After April 12

Name: Nancy Byrne Comments: Andrew, through this website and the love expressed herein by your family and friends, I have been awakend to the joy of living each moment. More importantly to giving to those I encounter in my daily life, your example of getting "on with it" (living a full and happy life) as efficiently and effectively as possible. Name: Nicole Loeffler Comments: Andrew, You are an inspiration and truly an angel sent by God. You are loved and missed. Thank you for everything you have given to this world. God Bless you. Name: Lord Tennyson Comments: Tears,idle tears, I know not what they mean, Tears from the depth of some divine despair rise in the heart, and gather to the eyes, In looking on the happy autumn-fields, And thinking of the days that are no more...Dear as remembered kisses after death, And sweet as those by hopeless fancy feigned on lips that are for others; deep as love, Deep as first love, and wild with all regret; O Death in Life the days that are no more! Name: Comments: no the ARIAD thing may not bring back Andrew, but maybe that is another purpose for Andrew's life to instill that drive in you & us, to do what we can to help those in need, and fight for what is right, who knows these treatments could get us closer to discovering the CURE... And you should DEFINATELY get the tatto! May God Bless you and your family. Thank you for keeping our community with you through this web site. Love With Faith. Name: Daniel Cuadra Comments: Andrew, I didn't know you, but I will see you in heaven one day, and my prayer is that even thru pain, you kept your faith in GOD. Name: b rizzizzle fo shizzizzle Comments: dave, get the tat!!! let me know when you do, i wanna go!! Name: kelsey Comments: andrew i never have met you but you will always be in my prayers.... Name: Comments: This whole ARIAD thing---I'm feelin' it! So, HOW DO WE JOIN THE FIGHT!!! I'm ready for a crusade--Tell us what to do next... Name: Comments: still thinking about you Name: Gabrielle Ruiz Comments: I think this is a great idea, to keep you in contact with the ones you love and who love you. Plus, it keeps you busy, doing something that makes you feel better. Keep up the good spirit. And remember there is always more to a day,...another. May God be with you. Name: Tom Stoppard Comments: Every exit is an entrance somewhere else. Name: Comments: checked the website, kept your family in my prayers. Perhaps the next time we BUMP into each other I can let my guard down. Your presence in my life has been a blessing. Thank you. Name: Comments: Nancy, we aren't the closest of friends but yet when we talk our conversations are deep and true and really connect; yet I have avoided you for the past two years (OK maybe I winked in church from across the aisle). But couldn't come close. Didn't want to cry in front of you, didn't want to bring you down. Grew up in a family that suffered great loss and after all these years your family's story brought mch of it back. Both the good and the bad. Went to Sunrise yesterday and BUMPED into you-OK, OK - there are NO accidents. I love you, love Andrew, have Alex and Dave in my prayers (don't know them as well). Your mom is a doll. Life is big and beautiful and HARD. I adnire your strength. As a mom I ache for your pain, as a Christian I want to both comfort you with familiar Bible versus and follow your example of FAITH. Yet we are just ordinary people,living life, loving family, and doing our best to be followers in Christ. I have prayed for you and your family almost daily, ch Name: Maya Angelou Comments: We, unaccustomed to courage exiles from delight live coiled in shells of loneliness until love leaves its high holy temple and comes into our sight to liberate us into life.......We are weaned from our timidity in the flush of love's light we dare be brave and suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Name: Ralph Waldo Emerson Comments: Oh child of paradise, boy who made dear his father's home, In whose deep eyes Men read the welfare of the times to come, I am too much bereft. The world dihonored thou hast left. O truth's and nature's costly lid O trusted broken prophecy! O richest fortunes sourly crossed! Born to the future, to the future lost! Name: Neil Comments: Son, don't wait till the break of day, cause you know how Time Fades Away! Name: Miranda Comments: Hi, Dave! Just thinking about you, Nancy and Alex. Hope you have fun at the concert this weekend \"/ Name: a kindred spirit Comments: Beautiful words for a beautiful boy from his beautiful dad--looking for some sort of comfort in the aching emptiness of his lonliness--turning to the magic of the written word, both lovely and painful. You are a master, Dave. Name: Anonymous Comments: I did not get the chance to know Andrew personally, I have only know of him through a friend of mine in Encinitas, CA. But I must say, reading the updates about Andrew's struggle, and reading through this guestbook has been so inspirational. I know that your family is strong, and you will get through this. You will perservere. You will stay strong and live your lives out fully. At this point, 111635 people have visited this website. That number is truly astonishing, and it really is a testament to the effect Andrew and the rest of you have had on those around you. His name is known will be remembered forever as his story is retold. From the deepest place in my heart, I wish nothing but the best for your family, and I feel that I have been truly priviledged to learn Andrew's story. Name: Kevin Barnett Comments: Dave, It's been quite some time since we spoke but I have thought about you and Andrew often. I knew you from SDCCU in Encinitas. I just want you to know you and your family are in my prayers and if you would like to get together you can reach me on my cell. In the case that this message goes into a public forum I will not leave my number. You can call Marianne Campbell. Your Friend, Kevin Barnett Name: Comments: 111555 people are devoted to you Andrew and the fam. You truly are an inspiration in life. You make all of us want to live our lives to the fullest. I think I speak for everyone when I say that we love you. Name: cont. Comments: He trusts that his parent knows where they are going, why they are going, how they are going. God created you to be His child...Grab His hand...trust Him. Name: Comments: To all who read here: When you have doubts, when you have questions, when nothing makes sense, remember...If God were small enough to understand, if we could put Him in a box and really know His thoughts from beginning to end, then He might not be big enough to worship. For if we could really know everything about Him, we would be His equal and that doesn't really work, does it? This is where faith comes in; that while we don't understand the why and how of what God does, we still believe and trust in Him. We believe in His love, we believe in His Son, Jesus, we believe in life everlasting for those who accept Christ as their Savior. If you want to be sure of where you are headed after this life, don't waste the opportunity to cry out to God "Father, I want to know you as my Lord and Savior...I want to live with You and my loved ones in heaven." Then have faith. Just like a child who can't see above the crowd, he takes his parent's hand and follows. He trusts that his parent kn Name: 4/28/05 Comments: . . .an angel watches over all of us now Name: Dylan Comments: I will never forget all the times when we were togther with Frank and the guys. you will truely be missed. Name: Jessica Comments: I cannot believe that there have been 111,338 visits to this website- WHAT AN INSPIRATION TO THE WORLD...Good for you Andrew ;) Name: Michelle Comments: Andrew, I wish I could have had the opportunity to meet you because the stories Alex has shared with me about your faith and strength are amazing. Thank you for your inspiration to the rest of us. To Alex: Your friends on Palomar First love you and are thinking of you always. Hang in there. We're here for you. Name: Kali Comments: Andrew i know your still reading this website!! and i know you are watching out for all of us!! Sunday gave me what i needed to understand that you will always be with us!!! luv you buddy!!! Name: M.B. Comments: Andrew i didn't really get to know you as much as i wanted to but when we sat next to each otherin Spanish youv'e seem like a nice guy. I didn't get to go to ur memorial but i heard it was really good. I'm so happy for ur family for having such a great son like you. You well be missed but we all know that ur in a very special place thats right your in a very special place your in heaven thats were all the angels go and you were one. You were an Angel and a Super Hero. God Bless you and ur family you'll be miss but we all know that ur going to be with us where ever we go Name: Comments: Andrew i didn't really get to know you as much as i wanted to know you. I couldn't go to your memorial but i heard from everyone that is was really good god bless you and the rest of the tebo family for having such a nice son like you. You well be missed but ur spirit is still going to be here with us at school and every where we go. Name: Tamilyn Comments: SO i heard that Andrews Celebration was truly amazing. I got so many emails informing me in on every detail, and all i could think was how i wish i could have been there. BUt andrew you were remembered all the way in venezuela, and i think that's how it will be for eternity. The world nor life cant seperate you from us. Andrew thank you once again for lighting a burning blaze within me. I will never take life for granted. Name: Angie Hanzen Comments: It was a privilege and an honor to have had the opportunity to have met you. God took one of his greatest back home. You will be forever remembered. Name: andrea Comments: I've heard of what an amazing person you have been, and you have inspired so many people. May your soul be at peace. My heart goes out to your family and all your friends. Name: Alex Higley Comments: Thank you Andrew James Thibeault... I'll never forget the lessons I learned from you, that will last a life time. You will always be in my thoughts and in my heart. Hopefully I can live my life to the fullest bring faith into other peoples lives, as you have brought it into mine. One day I will see you again and will be able to thank you for all the inner strenght you've given me. You truly re-define the meaning of the word FAITH. There are no longer any boundaries. Nothing will ever stop you from running freely and as often as you like. Nothing is holding you back anymore. May you be in eternal peace with the Lord. You will never be forgotten. You will always live in my heart...ALWAYS, and FOREVER. Name: a caring person.... Comments: Dave, Thank you for continuing to write to "us". I am not only here for Andrew, but for you, Nancy, and Alex, too. I admire the strength you all have....it's amazing. I was at the Celebration of Life memorial on Sunday and was blown away at all the support!! The speakers were all so full of class!! I'm sure Andrew is so proud and thankful! The memorial really made it possible to get a sneak peek into Andrew's and it was great to "know" him (even though he doesn't know me!). God bless you, sweet Andrew. May you live happily ever after. Name: Monica Farinelli again.... sorry :-\ Comments: Every night since you have left me, (us) i always have seen the first star that has come out. Every night it is the first one that shows up and the first one i see. after i stare at it for a few seconds, more stars would appear but the first star i saw would remain the darkest. i knew from the very first time that it was you Andrew. i prayed and wished and prayed and wished that you were happy up there... is your star telling me you are? well i look for you tonight buddy... i'll see you i know. i miss you. i'll see you as soon as God has planned. promise me you'll stay with me always. i love you and will never stop loving you. i will talk to you tonight :-D Name: Stephen Chen Comments: Everyone misses you forever and always. though i don't know you well, i hope that you are always in everyone's heart. Name: MONICA MICHELLE FARINELLI Comments: God knew he sent us an angel but what he didnt know is he also sent an inspiring, brave, strong, Superman of the 21st century! I knew god created great things but i didnt know he made em that great!!! i asked my mom once why we called the days people died anniversaries. " I thought anniverseries were happy and death isn't so why would you call it an anniversery?" she replied... "No, They ARE happy because its the day that someone enters a better place" Andrew, when every angel heard you were rejoining them, they cried out in joy. When humans on earth heard the news they cried out with mixed feelings. They knew they would miss you forever but they couldn't wait for you to be able to be in heaven, with God and be able to look out for us. now that your up there you don't need our prayers...we need yours! Name: Clementime Comments: Andrew-Sunday afternoon i celebrated your life, and it was beautiful. i still feel empty, but for now i can't help but believe that you are safe,sound, and pain-free. i know you are regulating the fields of heaven; running, scoring, pimpin the ladies, and playing those drums...perhaps squirting people with a fire extinguisher...(muahaha). i miss you, but this IS life, one of which i will be doing in honor of you. i love you. Alex-i am still amazed at your speech. it took my breath away. you are such a role model to me, and i could only hope to grow up to be as good,intelligent and remarkable as yourself. Nancy your strength has surpassed my admiration. Andrew was with you, his engergy is everlasting. thank you to the Thibeaults, but mostly..Thank you Andrew. i love you. -Amanda Clemens Name: Pam Reynolds Comments: April 23, 2005 Dear Nancy, Dave and Alex, God bless you! From the moment we met you have been in my thoughts and prayers. Today, I pray, the essence of Andrews spirit, and the love he inspired, surrounds and comforts you..and brings you peace. God blessed us all with Andrew, of this I am certain! Long before his illness Andrew displayed the gifts of extraordinary talent, (in darn near everything); athletically certainly, and famously, his intellect, compassion, humor and courage. A bright young man with a good heart! However it is the beautiful essence of Andrew that stole our hearts. His great big beautiful smile stole mine! His intellect (apparent from day one), evident in his academic records (which are amazing by all standards of measure) impressed everyone (especially me)! Andrew’s personality so full of compassion, modeled by you his loving family, and wonderfully developed as a Scout; his impish jokes and zest for a taste of college life attracte Name: Godmother Comments: I know our message is supposed to be to Andrew but now I prefer to send word to him privately through prayer. I hope everyone understands. Instead I just want to thank all the people who are taking the time to write down what we ALL took from Andrew's service. It was as strong and powerful as he was and therefore truly honored his life. I only smile a little because I think thank goodness it was. He would have been so mad at us if it had been anything less (: Name: Every PC's Memory Comments: Cotter crashed my hard drive. Name: Comments: I love you Name: John Cotter cont. Comments: know these simple words from Bishop Brom will help me heal. May they help you heal as well. Name: John Cotter cont. Comments: more completely, these events: While in the grocery store recently, Bishop Brom came to an isle where a woman was speaking to someone on her cell phone. She was standing in front of an item the Bishop wanted, so he waited at a distance until she was done talking. In spite of his distance from the woman, he heard the conclusion to her call. She ended with the following words: "Bye for now, I love you, see you soon." Bishop Brom thought of Jesus' death, resurrection and ascension and connected these events to the cell phone call. If Jesus would have spoken using contemporary language, he might have said those same words as the woman in a parting message to His disciples. So with Andrew, if we believe he is with Jesus, pain free and running again, then perhaps our way of thinking of him is to say, "BYE FOR NOW, I LOVE YOU, SEE YOU SOON." My wish for anyone reading this website is that you may take comfort in these words. After Andrew's death, my heart has been very heavy, but I Name: John Cotter cont. Comments: take advantage of all that USD has to offer by encouraging him to carry on with his life and live it with the zeal and balance that he already possesses. We will never Forget Andrew and his Supermanwill to survive and face his demon head on. But Andrew is with Jesus now, what better place than Heaven? He is fine, looking down on us and thinking we should be living the life he would have led had he been here to continue. In closing, I would like to offer a story that might help to lighten your spirits and those of others reading this website. The week after Easter, Bishop Robert Brom, Bishop of the Catholic Diocese of San Diego, visited my church, St. James, in Solana Beach. In his homily, he gave us a different insight into understanding the death, resurrection and ascension of Jesus into Heaven. He told the following story to help us understand Name: John Cotter cont. Comments: Nancy, your speech made me feel the special love of a mother for her son. Even if you had to have the "last word" I'm sure that last word was in the best interest of your sons, even if they would not want to admit it. Your strength through this whole journey was tested many times, I'm sure. Like Dave and Alex, you "dug deep" to do all you could to help Andrew. Nancy, Dave and Alex, you have fought the good fight, did not give up and showed Andrew and this whole community a courage that is rarely seen. You have influenced us all to lead more "caring, vulnerable and kind lives," in the words of Alex. For this, we are all very grateful. As the next days and weeks pass, please allow yourselves to begin to heal. Take time to do something you wanted to do but were too busy attending to Andrew. Nancy and Dave, celebrate Alex and all he has to offer. He is the kind of son every parent would love to call their own. He has two more years of college. Help him to take advantage of a Name: John Cotter cont. Comments: and make it better, right to the end when you sat by Andrew's casket and asked God to bring him back. I can only imagine how you must have felt leaving Andrew for the last time, knowing you could do no more for him. Your speech, complete with props, helped us see another side of the dilemma Andrew faced when use of the orthopedic devices came into the equation. Your discussion with Andrew to use the devices provided a transition for him. Because of your discussion, Andrew chose to live and fight rather then sit on the couch waiting to die. I believe that Andrew would not have come to this decision in as timely a manner if left to his own decision-making abilities. Regardless of what Andrew might say, I believe you made a real difference in his life. You did all you knew how to do. No one could ask more. Name: John Cotter cont. Comments: the important things in living a focussed life when I stray off the track by being complacent or taking people and/or things for granted. you have a valuable gift, that of expressing your ideas with poise, grace, strength and aplomb. All this in the face of a type of adversity that none of us would wich to explore. Your message will not be lost to those who listened with their hearts. As you move through your life, know that others have observed these gifts in you. Use them to do great things in the world. You already have them in you. Find something you're passionate about and put your gifts to work. Dave, your writings on this website over such a long time and your speech yesterday have touched me deeply. I sense the writing on the web might have been a catharsis for you, but you selfless sharing of Andrew's and your family's situation has forever changed our lives. You exemplify the father who does all he can for his ailing son to help him, wanting to control the situation Name: brittany hincapie Comments: the ceremony yesterday was so moving to me,and what so many of the speakers had to say really left a mark in my heart, and left me with my own and new observation on life! Name: Comments: andrew, you are a new angel that I talk to at night in my prayers, much love Name: John Cotter Comments: What an amazing tribute to Andrew's life yesterday at LCC! All the speakers spoke from the heart. You touched us all. Many times my handkerchief wiped away tears of emotions I still cannot fully explain. Mike Giblin, great job man! You were in a difficult position and handled it with tenderness and class. Your anecdotes about Andrew between speakers and performers gave us more insite into who Andrew was from your perspective. Thank you for that. Alex, your speech was first class, with a message we all need to remember and apply in our lives. I am so proud of you for taking the risk to speak your true feelings and to encourage us to commit to living a life of passion and zest as did Andrew. You made yourself vulnerable through your honesty. You have such strength of character. I have been deeply touched by your words. If you wouldn't mind, I'd like to get a copy of your speech. I'd just like to have it to remind me of the important things in living a focussed life when Name: Adele Lapadula Comments: I signed the guest book yesterday, but am still haunted by Andrew's legacy; the positive energy, and pledge I made to myself to be kind and gentle and generous yet not forget my sense of humor. I wish I had known this remarkable young man... but somehow now, I feel as if I do. Name: Just a friend (cont.) Comments: LCC's gymnasium was almost completely filled. If you added those who stood on the rail above the gym and the 180-200 in seats on the floor, then every seat might have been filled. Alex and Andrew's father, Dave spoke last and added his own list. He added four things he felt Andrew would want to see in all his friends: 1. Know who you want to be and go for it. 2. Make every minute count. 3. Don't let fear ever stop you. 4. There are no excuses. Name: Just a friend Comments: Alex really nailed it at the Celebration of Life service for his brother: "However you felt at the moment you heard about Andrew's death, go with that feeling." He continued: "Things that didn't matter at that moment, still don't." In the 12 days since Andrew died, hundreds of people have grown into a community of people who are kind and caring and vulnerable because they have learned to trust each other. Alex urged everyone to hold on to those most positive feelings that have surfaced in the wake of Andrew's death and apply them to the rest of our lives. "Maintain what you have learned ... let's continue to live like that." He urged the graduating seniors to carry this to their colleges and share Andrew's story with their new classmates. The words he kept coming back to were kindness, caring and vulnerability. It was really most humbly stated and as Alex walked away from the podium the audience erupted in applause and the stood on their feet. LCC's gymnasium was al Name: Adam Armstrong Comments: It is amazing how many people there were at the ceremony yesterday. Many, many people cared for and were obviously touched by Andrew. Andrew, you will always be in my prayers and hopefully I will be with you in heaven someday. Although you have left this life behind, your joys are only now truly becoming realized. Even to those who barely knew you, you will always be an inspiration. Name: Harry Cesna Comments: Dave, I was greatly inspired yesterday by the Celebration of Life memorial for Andrew. Although, I only knew Andrew through you and his participation in sports with my son Nicholas. I am not surprised by the number of people Andrew touched because he was someone special who had the gift to inspire others. Nicholas attended the ceremony with me and brought the All-star hit he wore when he and Andrew played All-stars for LCYO. Nicholas felt that this would be a way to reconect with Andrew. Also, Nicholas has some fond memories of Andrew and their short time together that he his going to post on the Web page. Dave I want you to know that you come to mind ofen, and that my prayers have always extended to you, Andrew, and your family. I regret I have not taken more time to stay connected and share feelings, thought, or just to say Hi. I can justify the reason for not making contact, but that does not exuse me from contacting a friend. Dave, I have always considered you a friend and Name: Amanda` Comments: Great job andrew! Name: Maria Comments: "To Those I Love And to Those Who Love Me" When I am gone, release me, let me go. I have so many things to see and do. You musn't tie yourself to me with tears. Be happy that we had so many years. I gave you my love, you can only guess how much you gave me in happiness. I thank you for the love you each have shown But now its time that I traveled on alone. So grieve awhile for me if you must. Then let your grief be comforted by trust. Its only for a while that we must part. So bless the memories, within your heart. I won't be far away, for life goes on. So if you need me, call and I will come. Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near. And if you listen with your heart, you'll hear All of my love around you, soft and clear. And then, when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile, And, "Welcome Home." Name: continued Comments: just know from having the "last word" was very, very brave. I wish you could really see the impact that Andrew, the family and his friends have made on so many lives...that is my wish for you. Andrew will NEVER be forgotten. He will live in our hearts forever. I wish you time to heal and know that I will strive to become a better, more forgiving and kinder person. Thank you. Name: From an LCC parent Comments: Wow...what can one say after experiencing Andrew's Memorial Service? I had so many emotions all at once..tremendous sadness, inspired, despair, privileged, amazed by all those who knew him, & comforted by the community spirit. From the Minister that spoke about being mad at God, to Alex from his heartfelt talk and bravery, Frank & Doug, Andrew's teachers & friends and how they have become better teachers, Andrew's cardiologist who's life has changed because of Andrew, Ryan & Kelly...you broke my heart, it never makes sense when you lose someone so young, but you will see someday that life does go on, you will never forget and will continue to love Andrew & you will heal. Mike & Diane, you have inspried me with your continued strengh and so much giving to the family & I know that your in pain as well. Dave..your words continue to amaze me with your strength and Nancy...as a mother I have so many feelings, but none that could really comfort you. Just know that your having the "last w Name: David Szymonik Comments: Hey buddy i really miss u u have been an awesome mentor and friend to me u have taught me so much and i really feel horrible for not being there as much as i should have i really luv u and u r the couragous person i have ever know luv u so much Name: Lanna Worley Comments: What a wonderful tribute to Andrew's life! It was both motivating and moving. It makes you cherish everyday more and more! Thank You! Name: Susie Venancio Comments: You all did a fabulous tribute. I admire and appreciate your devotion to your children. As parents you have done an outstanding job in raising your boys. We all should aspire to do the same. I hope that Andy and I will be able to influence our boys with a zest for life, thirst for knowledge, and an unbelievable spirit. Andrew has given me inspiration to carry within myself and to pass to my children. You are truly blessed. Name: David Bratton-Kearns Comments: Was at the service for Andrew at the high school yesterday. Flew down with Donna and Lauren. Fantastic day. Very emotional and inspirational. Honored & privileged to have attended. Name: Stacey Canfield Comments: Thank you for your strong light in an often dim world. You are a hero! Name: Marc Sawyer Comments: Today was perfect. Alex, you did your brother proud today. Dave, you gave us all an inside look to Andrew's amazing journey. And Nancy, that was one "last word" I'm sure Andrew will cherish forever. I love you all. Name: Sandy Thoma Comments: Alex,Thanks for the challenge to be kinder, care more and be vulnerable. Andrew's memory will be honored as we carry that spirit forward and touch hundreds of others for years to come. I was so moved. Name: Steve McPherson Comments: You will always be remembered Name: the ernst family Comments: what a wonderful tribute to you today. We feel so lucky to have known you! Our prayers are with you and your family and miss you. Name: Ray Combs Comments: Moved! That is the best way to describe my feelings after attending the celebration of Andrew’s Life today. Although I did not know Andrew very well I feel a strong connection to his spirit and the way he lived his life (I am not referring to his affection for hot chicks). I met Andrew through my old boss Dave Thibeault (He was tough to work for… always cracking the whip on us). In all seriousness I was honored to be present for such a moving tribute. I am extremely thankful to Dave, Alex , and all the others who were part of the celebration of Andrew’s life. I hope to keep Andrew’s spirit and tenacity alive in my heart all the days of my life. Ray Name: Comments: I love you Andrew. Words can't express what you mean to me. You make me look at life in a whole new way. "In the future I can't wait to see, if you opem up the gates for me." We all know where you are, and thats right here. You never left us. You're here in the morning, afternoon, evening, and the middle of the night. You never leave my mind ever. You are all I can think about which is the reason this is my third time writing on here within a few minutes. Watch over us. Be my guardian angel. Every angel god sends must return at some point and now was this angel's time. I will look for you in the future... I hope your looking for me too. Name: Monica Farinelli again Comments: I come on here every day and every day I cry at all the entries. SOOOOOOOO many people give you there entire support and and will let you lean on them anytime including me. In no time at all 110,000 people will have visited your website in two years. You people have turn into quite the celebrities. Name: Monica Farinelli Comments: At the Celebration of life today, Alex, your speech was hilarious and touching. Nancy, I'm so glad you always have to have the last word! ;) And Dave, your speech made me understand more about Andrew's conditions. I am going to visit sometime soon. I have to... I just have to. Do you realixe that throughout the whole time Andrew was sick I didn't visit once? That is why i must visit. I WILL see you soon. Lots of love, Monica Farinelli Name: emilyendres Comments: the celebration of your life today was amazing Andrew. You are amazing, watch over us babe. We love you Name: KALI PURSEHOUSE Comments: Andrew, I have come to terms with myself and I understand that you are no longer here with us in life but your are for sure here with us in spirit. As I was in the LCC gym today being reminded of what a kind, talented and wonderful person i will miss i saw you, heard you and remembered the first time i met you, the first time you made me laugh, the first time i got to know that you were a very special person! Andrew you will never be forgotten you truley are Superman!! and i will miss you my vacumm!!! Love always you Loud Speaker!!! Name: Susie Dixon Comments: I just spent two of the most beautiful hours hearing such wonderful thoughts and feelings about a most amazing young man. I wanted to write sooner, but was unsure of how to express my feelings adequately. As a mother, I could not imagine living through these past two and half years watching helplessly as your son battled through such a horrific fight. You all have lived through the unimaginable...today must have brought such beauty hearing about all the beautiful ways your son has touched so many hearts. I marvel at your strength. I appreciated your sharing of this special day with all of us. We are supposed to comfort you and yet you all have given us such comfort by sharing your son's life with us. You raised two amazing young men who have and will continue to impact so many in immeasurable ways. May God Bless You! Name: Comments: we miss u Name: Kelly Mac Kay Comments: I hate the fact that i can't say as i have every time before i'm about to come home from school, "i'll be coming to visit you soon andrew" but i'll always be with you in my thoughts and prayers. i love you so much Name: Comments: hey bud...we are coming to celebrate your life tomorrow. i want you to know it wont be the last. we all love you and superman is celebrated always. Name: Terry Gardner Comments: Dave, I saw this quote and thought of how your son has made an impact on my life, even though the only Thibeault I ever knew was you. You are in truly in my prayers. Love, Terry "Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same." Flavia Weedn Name: Robbie Kilborne Comments: Andrew you will always be kept in prayers, and never forgoten. You were an insperation to us all. In life there are not a lot of people that you look up to, with you its another story. Your courage and absolute kindness has made you one of my role models. You will never be forgotten. Name: Drew Bangert Comments: Dear An-man, Its has taken me a litte too long to face the fact that your physical pressence is no longer here. It makes it so much easier to know that while we are living our day-to-day lives, you are watching over us. I am relieved that you are no longer suffering and that people recognize your great courage and strength. I think of you and your family everyday. I love you! Name: Monica Farinelli Comments: Hey Thibeault family! I just wanted you, ALex to know that I am not the celebrity!!! When you said that I felt like saying, "You're not the one meeting a celebrity. I'll see you tomorrow at the Celebration of Life! I can't wait to see you again Name: Comments: It's been 10 days now. And I have missed Andrew greatly. Cried a lot. Worried about Nancy, wondered when Dave would fill us in again, sent prayers out to Alex - loosing a sibling is indescribable - lost mine 41 years ago and it's always a part of your life (both good and bad). Was dreading Sunday, but now all of a sudden I'm looking forward to it. I want to talk and hear about Andrew, not in the sad sense, but with humor. I want to hug and cry and remember. I want to celebrate! I want to share with others. I want the "unity" in the community that Andrew's story created. He was all about caring and sharing and laughter. Sure we'll cry, but most of all I'm looking forward to talking not about death, disease, or sadness. I want to remember the guy. See you Sunday at the celebration, at the school, where he was the guy. The guy HE sent to us to make us all ask why? Why are we here? How shall we live? What difference will we have made when we die. Bless you Andrew. Name: Comments: Dave, Please keep us posted as to what we can do to help you. You don't know me, but you have my heart and I want to help in some way....I'm sure others feel the same. Can you please update your "ways to participate" and let us know what we can do to help you? Thanks. Name: reminded me of you.. Comments: i dont believe in four leaf clovers or the luck they're suppose to bring ive used all my wild cards but theres something i can do.. to get close to you ive got dreams of love and i love you i know you feel the same way too i feel your spirit when youre near me and when youre away somehow, somewhere ill see you again but until then..ive got dreams of loving you. thinking about every little thing we ever did crazy, sipping on that memory lane that lane never closes seven days of the week i can drive in my sleep. cause ive got dreams of loving you... Name: Connie Thompson Comments: Dear Ones~ I think you are the bravest family I have ever worked with in all my years as a Pediatric nurse. Thank you so much for the wonderful privilege. God bless you! Name: A Friend Comments: In the future, can't wait to see If you open up the gates for me Reminisce some time, the night they took my friend Try to black it out, but it plays again When it's real, feelings hard to conceal Can't imagine all the pain I feel I'd give anything to hear half your breath I know you're living you life -- after death Every step I take, Every move I make Every single day, every time I pray -- I'll be missing you Thinking of the day, when you went away What a life to take, what a bond to break -- I'll be missing you It's kinda hard with you not around Know you in heaven smiling down Watching us while we pray for you Every day we pray for you Til the day we meet again In my heart is where I'll keep you friend Memories give me the strength I need to proceed The strength I need to believe Name: Annie Heberle Comments: Andrew, you are amazing. Your spirit is everywhere. We are so blessed to have you as our guardian angel. I love you with all my heart and you will always be remembered. Name: Mary Duggan Comments: Although I'd never met Andrew, I know about the love his friends at San Dieguito have for him. His love and light will live on in the plethora of people he has inspired and touched. My thoughts are with his family and friends during this difficult time. Mary Duggan SDA Teacher Name: Harry Cesena Comments: Dave sorry to hear of Andrew's passing, God Bless you and your family. Name: Comments: "But seek first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." -Mathew 6:33 Remember to look to Him for your comfort, understanding, and Peace. He will guide you threw these times. RIP Superman! May God Bless the Tibeault famliy. Stay strong! Name: Comments: The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing. Zephaniah 3:17 Name: Comments: Dave - "When you draw close to God, God will draw close to you." James 4:8 TLB Name: ee Comments: just thinkin about you andrew <3! Name: DL Comments: Nancy, Dave and Alex: I am so very sorry. Your pain and suffering is unimaginable. I did not know Andrew, but I am one of the many that wish I had. This world has lost a great soul. He was truly an amazing example of what a really kind and caring person should apsire to be. I hope you find peace and comfort wherever you can. xxoo Name: Comments: my heart goes out to andrew and his family... i didn't know him personally but i have heard what an amazing person he is. Name: Comments: My heart goes out to you, Tebo family. Remember that its ok to feel. Name: Jennifer Comments: I didn't know Andrew personally but when my cousin told me what had happened and how heartbroken she was, my heart went out to all those affected by this and all I can really do is send my prayers out to these people and hope that things look up. Name: Chris Comments: I didn't know Andrew, but what I here from his cousin was that he was pretty cool. My prayers go to all of Andrews family, and to Andrew too. One day there will be an end to all the suffering... Name: Comments: Just thinking about Nancy, Dave, and Alex...I hope you find peace in just knowing that he will live in your hearts and will be with you all forever. From a mother that knows Name: Comments: You will never be forgotten. God's Angel...Our Superman Name: cont. Comments: where words aren't needed, where you can simply feel the overwhelming amounts of love for you for without a single sound. I have to. I was raised believing the good were rewarded, and after watching these ideals crumble over the past couple years, I am clinging to faith. I just recently finished reading Tuesdays with Morie and there was a line that has been playing through my mind since April 12th. It read, Death ends a life, not a relationship. I am going to remind myself of this line each time Breathe comes on the radio, when I look out my window and see the empty sidewalk where our Circulo Adorno chats would take place, or the hour before I perform where, as my manager, you used to calm my nerves. You may not be here physically, but you are forever in my thoughts, my memories, my prayers, and my heart. I love you. Kiley Name: Kiley Comments: Andrew, I have read the guest book since the first entry, yet I never had the courage to actually place my own. I was too afraid that people would criticize or be unmoved by what I wrote or even worse, that I would appear vulnerable against the thousands who read your website. Yet, when I left your house Sunday night, still unable to say those three deceivingly easy powerful words, I realized this same wall guarding my emotions would ultimately cause me the most guilt and grief. Only you, as you lay in bed communicating by the squeeze of a hand, could continue to teach me about life and request me to reflect on my own. I am so grateful you did. If I hadn't told you that I love you and will always love you, I cannot imagine the added pain and anguish I would be experiencing right now. Its funny how those three words that seemed so impossible to say two weeks ago, now do not even come near to doing justice to express how I felt. But I believe that you are in a place now Name: Comments: Dave, your writing is amazing. Thank-you for sharing your moments with Andrew with us all. I'm a writer too and i can't imagine how painful it must have been for you to physically write what you've shared with us. I am so sorry for your pain but wanted to let you know that what you've written is beautiful and takes so much courage. Andrew is proud and IS listening, even if he's not allowed to respond. Please continue the updates. You and your family are as important to us all as Andrew is. Name: Comments: hey dave i heard that you went down to where they creamated Andrews body. thats narly i don't think i could do it. he was defnitely a stud so he deserved it but that had to be hard.all right keep up the good writting. we love Andrew!!!! Name: A concerned soul Comments: Dave, In this time of need I would like to do something nice for you. I am an interior decorator and I would like to help you with a redesign (if you're interested). I will be in touch. Keep up your spirited writings as they are an inspiration to me. My thoughts are with you and your family. CS Name: Monica Farinelli Comments: Usually I would be writing this to Andrew but this time I want to praise the family. WOW is all I can think to say. You guys are the strongest, bravest people I have ever had the honor to meet. You guys were the perfect family for Andrew. I read the "What's New Page" all the time but sometimes the writing doesn't make sense to me, an 11 year old girl. I don't know if you saw Lynn and Rachel Smith's entry but me not understanding reminded of their message. Someday I will understand why some things happen and why but... right now all I can do is try to understand. I've shed many tears for Superman and talk to him every night and day. When people say never "never forget" I find that crazy! It should be "how could you forget? Name: 107099 - WOW Comments: Look at the multiples of people that your son has touched and will live forever in the hearts of all these people - what a miracle! Your family has touched the lives of a community like nothing we have ever seen - "Tebo" Family - you are a blessing to us all - thank you for sharing Andrew's story with all of us so that we can all know that life is to be cherished every day - that every day is a miracle AND a blessing. May the Lord, Jesus Christ, be ever present in your lives holding you so close to Him! Name: maria Comments: Sometimes God just says, "Enough! Come home." Name: Comments: to be ready to write this message. I have read the notes from people sharing their thoughts in the message log to the regular updates by Dave, Andrew’s father. I have known Dave for about 25 years and I truly saw the depth of his despair in his recent writings. There is nothing wrong in that. I see and hear the loss felt by Dave, Nancy and Alex, but only they understand it. Everyone grieves in their own way and for as long as they need to. I am thankful that Dave chooses to share his thoughts with us. Andrew, rest in peace dear, sweet boy. Name: Deborah Collette Comments: For as long as this website has been up and running, I have followed Andrew’s life. The bottom line is that this is and was a kid who touched others in so many different ways. The Eagle Scout project was remarkable because it offered an escape to many others in the same situation that Andrew experienced. He jumped in and did it because it just needed to be done. I read messages from classmates, teachers, medical staff, as well as family and friends who all saw a part of Andrew that many of us did not see. Almost daily, I cried because of the messages I read. The kind words from the shy student who remembered Andrew talking to her in class, the wound care nurse who said that Andrew remembered the names of her kids and instructed her on some wound care tricks that she planned to share with other caregivers, and dear friends and family who will all be forever touched by his kindness, smile and humanity. Peace. At different times in our life we all need to find it. It took me a while Name: Comments: Dear Dave, Nancy and Alex...your loss is more than anyone can ever imagine if they have never gone through what you all have. May you find comfort in his memory and legacy. You will find Andrew in all that you do, all that you feel. Dave, you WILL one day find comfort, try to put your anger aside and see that there are people that want to help you through your pain. Your son Alex needs you more now than ever before, please don't forget him in your pain. Alex is a wonderful son, please find the gifts in him, he has so much to give you as you do for him. May God love you and guide you. God Bless. Name: Comments: The miracle you were given, the "grace" to receive to feel and touch and be "concrete" happened May 30, 1987 when a new life began to be a part of your life, Dave. Sometimes we get confused and don't really see God in action. How empty life would have been without the short time of this young soul who brought so much joy and love into your life. I'm so sad for your loss and words cannot express how unfair these last three years have been for you. No parent should have to suffer such an unimaginable journey and loss. My prayer for you is that someday.... you'll find comfort again; you'll want to live again and have that zest for life your son had, and you'll see the little miracles in everyday life that we sometimes overlook. That's where you'll find God. Name: con't Comments: rest and now at peace. Thank you for sharing this beloved child of God with us all. He will be missed, but trust that Andrew will live on in our hearts. Name: Cynthie Bond Comments: Nancy, Dave, and Alex, I was Andrew's ninth gd. Confirmation teacher. And while I could expand on Andrew, it is you, Nancy, Dave, and Alex that I wish to address. Julian of Norwich, a 14 c. visionary wrote, "Here I saw part of the compassion of our Lady, St. Mary; for Christ and she were so united in love that the greatness of her love was the cause of the greatness of her pain. For as much as she loved him more than all other, her pain surpassed that of all others. For always, the higher, the stronger, the sweeter that love is, the more sorrow it is to the lover to see the body which he love in pain." At this most crucial time, may God's sustaining comfort be equal to your love for Andrew. And while we are all stunned by his passing, we understand it is you who are left to carry the greater burden, the greater pain. As the Communion of Saints, we hope to sustain you in that loss, conveying our deepest love and support for all of you, as well as Andrew, a child of God now at r Name: Megan Comments: Andrew...I am not really sure how and if i can put into words the way i feel. But i think that you know what i am feeling and thinking. I wanted to say thank you. I also wanted to let you know that what you said to me the last time i was with you meant so much to me, i cant even put it into words. Thank you for letting me be a part of your life. I miss you andrew, we all do. And i hope you can hear my prayers and songs in heaven. Love you, thank you. See you later. Name: Katelyn Comments: I saw another broken sprinkler tonight..shooting straight into the air...This time I smiled. Those are signs I swear. It makes me feel comforted knowing that I see them though. Keep em' coming, cuz we do see them. Missin' you man. Love you! Name: Comments: thinking of you always buddy! Name: jordy Comments: thinking about you all the time, dear. miss you, andrew... thinking about you too, alex... can't wait to see you this summer! Name: Jeaneth Green Comments: Andrew: Wheter you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you saying: " This is the way : walk it" Isaaiah 30:21 Name: DAVE Comments: YOUR SON IS WITH YOU - HE NEVER LEFT YOU - HE WILL WELCOME YOU WHEN IT IS YOUR TIME - YOUR TIME IS NOT NOW - ALEX NEEDS YOU NOW - POUR YOUR HEART ON HIM NOW. Name: Comments: I don't understand what your trying to say Dave....???? Name: jamie lee Comments: thinkin of you andrew. forever and always you have taught me a new meaning of life. forever flying superman. Name: Camille Bradley/ your former employee at SDCCU Comments: Dave, my prayers go out to you and your family on the passing of Andrew. I never met him, but from reading about him through this site i know he was a terrific young man. So now it is time to celebrate his life, because you will see him again! Hang in there DAVE, Love CAMILLE Name: Brandon Thibeault Comments: FOR ANYONE AND EVERYONE: My band, Bretley & The Deal, will be performing on April 29th (my fathers one year anniversary) at Sierra Canyon Middle School in Chatsworth, CA from 1:00 to 7:00. The event is a school fair, we are the entertainment for the day and were devoting our performance to Andrew and Denis Thibeault. We're also using this as a platform to raise money for the San Diego clan of the Thibeault family...Also in memory of Andrew, I will be playing the gig on his drumset, an honor im not nearly worthy of accepting...Please come out and see the show and support Andrew & Denis...also come to eat the food, play the games and enjoy all the wonderful things the fair will have to offer! For more information please email me at paistedrummer@hotmail.com or call me at 818-515-7412. I hope to see all of you there showing your support for two incredible people im lucky to have known. Name: Larry the Link in CO Comments: Dave, Once again, some very moving, personal moments you had the grace to share with us all. Thank you, you made us all feel the intensity of grief from a loving father who misses his precious son more than anything. Somehow I missed the cliches. Name: Comments: It sounds like something pretty special went on last night!! Share with the rest of us.... Name: Keely Nunez Comments: Hey Andrew, I only got the chance to meet you once. I just want you to know that you are an inspiration to so many people. It's amazing how one person can affect so many. You've made me appreciate life, and as cliche as it sounds, to just truely embrace everyday. My thoughts, and prayers and love go out to you and your entire family. Name: Spanish Fly Comments: Marc Sawyer is the True Gabooey. Name: Marc Sawyer Comments: TO ALL OF YOU POSTING ON THIS SITE: You all are amazing, and it is you who will help this family through the hard times. All your messages, all your thoughts and prayers will be remembered fondly, and you are what power this amazing family to move forward. Name: Ryan Caputo Comments: My Heart Goes out to the Friends and family of Andrew.....Rest In Peace, Brother. Name: Jake Comments: Andrew...i barely knew you. yeah, we talked, but i never really got to know you. but i feel like we have been friends for years. i have heard tons of storys about you from those who were fortunate to share more time with you than i got too. From the fire extinguisher story to your basic everyday humor. you were an amazing kid superman and i miss you so much. i am not an emotional guy and it is weird to be feeling all this. i am so happy that you are no longer suffering but yet so sad that you are gone. but i have felt your presence, especially at the candle lighting ceromony. you broke that sprinkler because you did not want everyone to be sad. but you are a true hero and people cant help but mourn. last night was the coolest sign, after hearing all the stories about u, i wanted another sign, and asked you to give me one. and you came and visited me in my dreams. it was awesome. Feel free to come any time. thank you Andrew and come see us again buddy. forever remembering~ Name: KATIE LYNNE BENDIX Comments: andrew, i just wanted to express how amazingly loved you were by one of my precious friends, whos like a little sister to me...monica farinelli. stud, she loved you so much, as if you were part of her family. you saw what she did for you, her gorgeous paintings...and i know you loved them by that smile on your face and the opening of your eyes. she loves you with all of her huge heart andrew...i want you to especially watch over my girl, monica. she cared for you through letters, actions, and thoughts. she misses you dearly, as im sure she has told you through prayers. monica deserves your undevided attention andrew, and i know you...you'll give it to her. you are everywhere andrew, i feel you...i feel your energy, i feel your power. i love you. watch over me. LOVE, YOUR STUD#1 Name: KATIE LYNNE BENDIX Comments: thinking of you and loving you with ALL of my heart. you will forever play a huge part in my life. i love you, stud. <3 kt Name: Comments: Dave, Thank you for sharing your moments from Friday with all of us. You are very good at reciting "cliches", so I'm sure you know the one: "A watchpot never boils". Andrew is there with you....he never left you. No magic may have occurred when you asked it to, but I feel that you have plenty of "signs" that Andrew is there with you. Your heart knows the truth. Stay strong, but cry as often as you need to - I found that it's helped me. All of our shoulders are here for you to cry on whenever you need us. Please also keep us informed of your needs (meals brought to the house, house cleaning, etc.) We are here to help and expect you to let us! Love to you, love to Andrew, and love to your family.... Name: Leslie Mauerman Comments: Andrew: May God welcome you with open arms--Dieter knew you when he was at La Costa Heights, now finishing at the Academy, where there are many prayers for you and your family also... Name: kel Comments: Just thinking about you andrew. I LOVE YOU Name: Angie Comments: May God rest your soul. Name: Jenny Milosch Comments: Andrew, you are in a better place now, and finally free of your pain. My prayers are with the rest of your family as they are going through these hard times. Alex- I know I speak for all of us at USD when I say that we love you and we are here for you always. Name: emily endres Comments: Last night i shared your star with two great people. We just sat in the parking lot looking up through the window. The star almost shined as bright as you do andrew! You will never be forgotten and we will never stop talking thinking caring about you. You are here with us and looking out for each one of us. THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS ANDREW ;) love you lotsss Name: Llysia Comments: superman. we miss you dearly. Its funny how much the word FAITH appears all over everything now. that is becuase you brought it to us. you will always and forever be our inspiration in life, and for that i thank you. keep on running as fast as you can and playing those drums so loud that we can hear you. you are an angel of god and the superman of our world. Watch over your family,everyone is praying for them. i will always love you Name: Sogand Comments: Andrew, I don't know you, and i know that you never knew me, but hearing about this just makes you really want to reach out, and that's what I'm doing. I know it's a little late, but from what I have read and seen, you will always be remembered and loved by all your friends, family and even people who didn't know you - like me. I hope your doing great in your new place, and that you will always be happy. Name: Andrew Heidari Comments: Hey, i am sorry to hear the bad news. May he lay in good hands now. Name: The Sauer Family Comments: I'm sorry we have written for a while. It is so hard to put into words how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Our love and prayers go out to the entire Thibeault family. Andrew you will be greatly missed by all, but we are thankful that you are out of pain and are in heaven with the Lord. We have been looking at pictures of you when you were younger and you always had a big smile on your face. Your wonderful smile, and your ability to touch so many lives with your courage and positive attitude will live on forever! God Bless you all! Name: Colette Armstrong (wound care nurse) Comments: For Nancy - thank you for the privilege of caring for your son. I cherish those moments in your home, changing Andrew's wound VAC and listening to him joke around. There were days he was in obvious pain, and yet he'd ask me how my day was and always remembered the names of my children. He taught me a few wound care tricks that will be passed on to other nurses and patients. When I pray for him now, I feel a sense of joy -- he was chosen by God for something much greater than anything we can understand on this earth. If he could talk to all of us now, I believe he would ask everyone to celebrate his life instead of mourning him. Remember the good moments-- especially the funny ones-- and carry out your lives abundantly. God Bless You and your family. What a gift Andrew was!!! Name: Jen Brown Comments: We miss you, superman.. Name: Godmother Comments: I told Mike the other day that I wasn't ready to do this, not yet able to verbalize my feelings. The pain is too deep, too raw. Subsequently and on a lighter note, Mike now thinks one of your last great accomplishments was that you left me speeechless. I know you're laughing. You know I love you. Name: Cecilia Kasperick Comments: Andrew, I know you're no longer present on earth. If I would have known about this site, I would have written sooner. However, I don't think it's too late. You can hear now, I'm sure of that. As a matter of fact, I think you're in a good spot to help all of us still on earth. Your life was an awesome example of generousity and self sacrifice. I'm in awe with your Eagle Project and inspired by your tenacity to help others when you were suffering so much. Thank you for being exactly who you were, are and always will be. An incredible son of God. Enjoy paradise. We'll see you soon. In Christ, Cecilia Kasperick USD Resident Minister (On Alex's hall) Name: shelly Comments: i cry every day in the pain of missing you, but am always consoled knowing you're running free now. you always made my days in the hospital brighter when i got to see you...i can't even begin to articulate how much you've impacted me. miss you and love you forever. i can't wait for when the day comes for me to see my boy again <3superman Name: maria Comments: don't worry, andrew. alex is hanging in there. please tell me what to do so i can help him. he will never be an only child as long as he has you in his memory. love you.. Name: joe Comments: Andrew~ i always enjoyed being in your presence. your spirit was so uplifting and inspiring, to be sad around you was not possible. you touched an endless amount of people with you tremendous courage. our memories together will forever be with me and i thank you for that. god picked a heck of a job for you and you defeated the darkest evils with your bravery. you will always be right where you belong...in my heart. Name: Comments: Forever in our hearts ANDREW TEBO.... you will forever be our Superman both down here on Earth and up there in Heaven Name: Shannon Comments: Not a day has gone by without thoughts of Andrew and his strength...thinking and praying for you and your family daily superman... Name: Jen Comments: Noting is more beautiful then strength in a wicked world. Your life and your love will remain in our hearts for an eternity and we will see your face in our moments of darkeness and remember you. And in those moments we will pick ourselves up, lift our faces to the sky, and continue on as you did. Name: Jenny Sondag Comments: Andrew has been an inspiration to us all. His life has touched many of us. I feel blessed to have known him. He will always be missed and never be forgotten. God bless Andrew and his family. Name: Fletcher Fields Comments: Andrew, We only met once a long time ago at St. Andrews, but I have thought a lot about your life and how much it affected so many people. I only knew of you and knew your mom pretty well, but I can't stop thinking about you and your struggle these past few years. My youth group at St. Andrews talked about you for a long time tonight and it was great. Everybody had something to say, all positive things, and everybody was greatly moved by your story. Thank You Andrew. Name: elena bloom Comments: andrew i never got the chance to meet you, but i met your mom when you were in my mom's hospital. she is a very very nice lady and that shows in you. you are an insparation to me and everyone. rest in peace andrew. much love. <3elena Name: Nancie Lofgren Comments: Thank you Andrew for touching my life! I pray you are now in the arms of Jesus and all the pain is gone and you can run! I tried to help you walk again and oh how you tried! I know that you are running in heaven!!! I pray for God's peace and joy over your home Nancy and in your heart. Name: kimberly Comments: a luminaria was lit last night in loving memory of andrew at the american cancer society's relay for life. those luminarias lit the way for hundreds of UCLA students to walk for 24 hours around what would have otherwise been a dark track. the fight will never end! with love and prayers for you andrew, and the thibeault family. Name: Hanly Family Comments: Your courageous battle inspires us all-may God's arms embrace you and comfort you at this difficult time. Name: Another LCC Mother Comments: Dear Family $ Friends of Andrew...so many things have come to mind since Andrew's passing none of which are worthy to write..Just please know that not one day goes by when all of you aren't thought of and prayed for. Just know that Andrew will always be in everyone's heart that he touched whether he knew them or not. This is truely one amazing story that should not go untold...it will keep Andrew's legacy alive. Who know's, it just might help someone else out there that wants to give up...Andrew NEVER gave up and that one of the lessons to be learned. I also feel God had a job for Andrew to fulfill, and fulfill he did. He was able to pull an entire community together in hearts and mind as well as extend himself to outer corners of the world, he got his message across. He lived out his life with spirit, dignity, compassion, love, humor, I could go on and on...but if you asked any one person about how Andrew affected their lives, it would all be very different with one common threa Name: Comments: good luck Name: anonymous Comments: god bless you andrew. god bless the thibeault family. Name: Katelyn Comments: So I prayed last night...again. And I just KNEW with all my heart that you are happy. It made me smile, instead of cry. Thank you! Miss you, love you! Name: cont. Your Clementime Comments: you around. I miss you superman. but you'll be running through my heart always...as fast as you want. love forever-amanda clemens Name: Your Clementime Comments: As i sit here and think of what to write, i can not even begin to think of words that could explain because i have never felt what i am feeling now. I am happy that you are free of pain. I am sad that we can no longer make memories. i feel regret and sadness that you are gone and didnt deserve one bit of this.but andrew, i feel your energy. i want to make a point of thanking you...for including me in your life. a life that i will cherish unitl the day i join you. (and what a great day that will be). As much as i am hurting and missing you right now i am so relieved that you are in God's hands. i will forever miss you calling me "CLEMENTIME". not a day goes by that i dont drive by the place we crashed the pimped out Buick and laugh out loud. i will never forget our good times. you have some amazing people on earth that really love you andrew. including myself."FAITH is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." I hope that is true...and if it is. I'll be seeing Name: DeDe Phillips Comments: It's about midnight and I just got back from the rock climbing trip to Joshua Tree - lots of memories of you Andrew and Alex and your Dad, of course. Brothers talking in a tent, charging up a bunch of boulders, dumping food on the ground, everything competitive - even spanish counting!Thanks. Alex & Dave want to climb Mt Whitney this summer? Name: cuz Bill Comments: my new vocablary.....motivation, admiration, superman, inspiration, friends, strength, big bro. And many more. It's all the same. It's ANDREW. Name: Kristen Grassi Comments: Hey Andrew a lot of people r mouring you. We all miss you over at LCC. We love you RIP Name: Natassia Comments: As I sit here and reminisce on everything life has to offer, and I think of all you have accomplished in the past three years alone it really makes me re-evaluate how I am living. Not that I am living badly, I just see how you lived life, Andrew, and I know I could live and love better. Alex, Nancy and Dave..like Marc said...everything that was good in Andrew lives in all of you. You were all so essential in his life, as much as he was in yours. Your family is such an amazing group of people. You should all feel so amazingly blessed. God loves you and so do I!!! Name: Andrew McMillin Comments: I pray for the repose of your soul and the consolation of your family. You are living in the presence of God, how great it is, cant wait to be where you are. You are in peace and home again. Name: Anonymous Comments: Andrew, you are home now. In the arms of God and the arms of the angels. Thank you for being in my life for you are the greatest inspiration one could ask for. My love and prayers go out to you, your family, your friends and loved ones. Words can't begin to explain my feelings for you. So, I will end this with I love you, take care, and I'll see you when I get there. Name: KATIE LYNNE BENDIX Comments: stud, i think of you constantly. not a moment goes by when i dont miss you. im jealous of your paradise now. where you are, is where i belong...where you are, is where i wanna be. although youre not here and it makes me sad, our talks through my prayers make me so glad to hear that you are happy. i miss you. not a moment goes by when i dont see things that remind me of you. i love you more than you can ever know. and i long for the day that i see you again. miss you, am thinking of you, and am so glad that you are free. you deserve heavenly treatment. thank you for touching our little town with the fingers of Heaven. thank you for all youve done for me. watch over me. i miss you. dont ever forget our times together. i dont even know how to end this...but i do know that this is not my last i write you, or the last i speak to you. i love you andrew. straight up, pure love. keep your eye on me, make sure i dont mess up. forever my love will be with you. Name: WE NEED YOUR HELP!!!!!!!!!! Comments: We're all saddened with the recent loss. To help ease the pain and provide the family with those happy memories we all have of Andrew we are assembling a memory book for Nancy, Dave and Alex. The book will contain those special photos, writings or stories you would like to share. If you would like to create your own page please use 12" X 12" strap hing pages (available at Michaels). Once you've completed your page please drop off at my house or at my work. Please get them to me by April 20th. I know the family will treasure these happy memories for a lifetime. Thanks, Carol Konoske 3551 Sitio Baya 753-7538 or Contract Carpet 436-9030 work Name: allisa Comments: i know u can fite it! may god be with you! Name: Gidget-SDA Comments: Andrew was such an inspiration to all. I didn't even know him and he touched me more than words can describe. I started to follow andrew's story after talking to a friend. Andrew has touched so many lives. I only wish that I could have had the pleasure to meet such an amazing human being. Not many people can touch those they don't even know but he managed to do it with his strength, great outlook, and loving heart. God Bless you and your family. Always in our hearts. Name: Juanita Belasco Comments: God Bless You, you were a special soul. Name: Tamilyn Comments: WE feel helpless here on the ship, but we thank God for blessing our lives with Andrew for 17 years. OUr friends on the ship have ordered a cake for the 24th of April. AS they know how much kelly and i wanted to be with you all , but the cake says WELCOME HOME ANDREW. so we will be there with everyone in spirit, remembering the awesome man ANdrew was. And everything he did for all of us. Andrew thank you for everything . Name: Comments: I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. Name: kaley kenney Comments: ill be missin you.... Name: Kelly Mac Kay Comments: I love you Andrew, thinking of you always. Name: LCC Teacher Comments: The life we choose to live matters to those around us. Through the past few weeks, I have watched my students, many of whom knew Andrew or had close friends who did, take stock of the value of their own lives as well as Andrew's. He has modeled for them a life cherished, one lived fully. He spoke the truth to them and was himself-kind, brave, human. What a tremendous gift he has given these young people. He has left them, and all of us, transformed. Peace for your family. You are ever in our thoughts. Name: Lauren Woods Comments: Andrew you were such an amazing person and I'm so glad I had the opportunity to get to you know in chemistry this year. You will never be forgotten. We love you. Name: Comments: It's absolutely gorgeous today and it makes me wonder how heaven can be any better? But it must be. And then I remember that you're there and that makes me feel better, because your pain is gone. I miss you-terribly, but I look at this beautiful day and I am happy for you, in heaven, at peace with God. That makes me smile between the tears. Name: charlie Comments: i didnt really know andrew although i heard a lot about him wondering who he was and why he had so much positive comments about so yesterday our english teacher nearly burst into tears thinking about u she was ur teacher to in 7th and 8th grade we spent the whole period remebring all the good things about ur life Name: Afton Schmid Comments: You always stood so strong and brave, You were always one who always believed, So many goals you set out for, So many goals you achieved, We will all miss you. Name: Kelly Giblin (cont.) Comments: u every single day, I have always and will always love you dearly. God's angel, our Superman, my best friend. Name: Kelly Giblin Comments: So I've stared at this blank box numerous times over the past few days only to find myself at a loss for words. I can't describe my pain for losing you, yet I can't even seem to describe my joy for your relieved pain. Behind the smiles and the laughter I am still angry. I'm angry that I will wake up everyday knowing that my best friend won't be there to see me through it. Perhaps it's utter selfishness or perhaps it's completely reasonable, but regardless I can't seem to hide it. You are simply the first thing I have lost that I can never get back, clearly irreplaceable. However I do realize how lucky I am to have been your best friend, to know my superman for the past 18 years of my life. I will miss you smile, your jokes, and the fight in you. I could never be more proud of your life and the things you did. I find comfort in knowing that when I get there you will be standing on your own two feet with arms wide open, saving me a spot next to you. Can't wait to see you again. I miss yo Name: Aimee Barrere Comments: Bless you up in Heaven...Your new venture has just begun...in our hearts & prayers FOREVER...XOXOXOXOXOXO\"/ Name: Comments: i love your site, you were always happy and had a positive outlook on life, and i admire you for that. we miss you and will ALWAYS love you Name: Lindsay Comments: AS i sit here, reading each one of these comments i find it amazing that one young man touched thousands of lives. Andrew, you were and always will be an inspiration to us all. God Bless Name: Comments: Andrew has changed my life. I will forever be different and better person because of him. To his family: you guys are so strong. I admire your strength and courage. We are all here for you and love you. I love you Andrew... Name: chris pruden Comments: let god be with you :) Name: FERDIE Comments: ANDREW, YOU ARE ONE OF MY BEST PATIENTS @ HEMONC. I LOVE OUR MINI CONVERSATION ABOUT GIRLS HERE AT WORK. YOU MADE ME LAUGH A LOT. YOUR MOM, DAD, AND YOURSELF ARE VERY SPECIAL HERE AT WORK. WE WILL MISS YOU A LOT. YOUR PAL, FERDIE Name: Michele Knighton Comments: Dave, Nancy and Alex, I was one of the fortunate who tended to Andrew through San Diego Hospice. The entire family is quite amazing and I know you all have made an impact on many even if you don't realize it. He was truly special and affected the world in many ways. Thank you for Andrew and for allowing us the opportunity to care for him and your family! God Bless Name: Joanne Tiffany Comments: My children, Brad and Annie Tiffany, are so effected by Andrew's death. They did not know him well, Annie not hardly at all, but each of them has been profoundly changed by Andrew's passing. My prayers are with your family during this time. My children will be better for having this experience of Andrew, his struggle for life and his death. God bless you all in this time of sorrow. Joanne Tiffany LaCosta, CA Name: A Friend Comments: You are my hero Andrew, you really are Superman. Love always. Name: The Hunt Family Comments: We will always remember the "Verga Group." When Frank, Andrew, Dylan, Michael, Bryan and and a scattering of others would bowl, go to movies, play poker,.. just be together! How special those times were. It is a lesson to cherish your moments when you have them. Those boys just "Were,"..without a worry. Now they can realize how preciouos those moments were. God bless you, and know that Dylan and the rest of our family will forever hold Andrew in our hearts. Name: Melissa Capps Comments: You are in a better place now Andrew. You can do whatever you want. You made a lasting impression on our world and you will not be forgotten. Name: LCC parent Comments: How much did Andrew mean to my daughter and her friends? Words cannot describe it! How much have worried about him, unable to sleep, etc? Well, Andrew must be in heaven comforting them as two of them are sound asleep upstairs as I write this at noon time. God Bless the Thibeault family. Name: Diana W Comments: Andrew, you are truly an inspiration, a teacher to us all. I will never forget your self confidence, courage and most of all the sparkle in your eyes when you smile:) Name: LCC Parent -continued from below Comments: He was relieved, to be able to finally take you away From all the pain and suffering that the cancer has caused and to bring you home in the comfort of his arms filled with His Love. A love greater than any of us could imagine. Andrew, I know now that you are in good hands. So now I will Pray for your family, and for God to give them the peace. But please just know I will always remember YOU. Name: LCC Parent Comments: Andrew, you may not remember me, but I remember you. I remember when my 10th grader came home to tell me about how you were sick with cancer. So we prayed for you everynight. As time went on, I remember asking her how you were and she told me how you had to have surgery to remove the tumor and that you almost didn't survive, but your strong will to live pulled you through. That night I prayed for you alot. I remember when they did the blood drive at school for you and my daughter was upset because she wanted to help but was told she was too young to give blood. So we prayed for you some more. I remember hearing that you came back to school and seeing you as the Junionr class Homecoming Prince at the football game. Then I remember how just a week ago she came home and told me how the cancer had spread and that you were going to die. I remember how I cried and asked myself WHY? I truly believe that when you said you were putting your life in God's hands, He was relieved, to be able to f Name: Comments: i close my eyes, and i dream, of my superman comin' down to rescue me... Name: Mary Arana Comments: Sincere condolences. Though sadly short, a life well-lived, it appears, with friends and family in abundance. Name: Dave, Nancy, and Alex - Comments: All of the beautiful writings about your beautiful boy - to know all of you was to know him - he surely had the traits of each one of you - you should be proud of the "job well done" - your son was a "man before his time" at the mere age of 17. I am sure he would want us all to plunge forward with our lives and keep thoughts of him in a safe place in our hearts and minds. God bless and keep you all right now and know that there is a huge community out there for your support with lots of love to share with you all! In Christ, Margi Name: Samantha Comments: My thoughts and prayers go out to Andrew's family and friends. I just read of his passing in the paper this morning. What a brave boy to take something like that on and still live with the goals and ambitions he had. My father was diagnoised with Leukemia when he was seventeen and fought until he died at the age of 32. I thank the Lord every day that I had my Dad as long as I did (14 years) and could not imagin what it would have been like losing him any earlier. Stay strong and God bless you. Name: B-Rizzle fo Shizzle Hizzle Tizzle... Comments: FOR ANYONE AND EVERYONE: My band, Bretley & The Deal, will be performing on April 29th (my fathers one year anniversary) at Sierra Canyon Middle School in Chatsworth, CA from 1:00 to 7:00. The event is a school fair, we are the entertainment for the day and were devoting our performance to Andrew and Denis Thibeault. We're also using this as a platform to raise money for the San Diego clan of the Thibeault family...Also in memory of Andrew, I will be playing the gig on his drumset, an honor im not nearly worthy of accepting...Please come out and see the show and support Andrew & Denis...also come to eat the food, play the games and enjoy all the wonderful things the fair will have to offer! For more information please email me at paistedrummer@hotmail.com or call me at 818-515-7412. I hope to see all of you there showing your support for two incredible people im lucky to have known. Name: A Friend Comments: Mary Kate in an important way you WERE part of Andrew's everyday life. Maybe you hadn't realized it until now. You just described it beautifully. That is the nicest tribute among all of these and really captures the essence of what Andrew was all about. I know he enjoyed reading it as much as we did. God Bless. Name: Kara Santore Comments: Andrew, i will think of you when i can! Name: Megan Poponyak Comments: "Well done good and faithful servant"-you are with God now,but your life will not be forgotten on Earth.